Americans are among the most informal and casual people in the world. They often call each other by their first name, even when first meeting.
Dress also is informal. Pants are an accepted fashion for women, and jeans are worn by nearly everyone.
A handshake, smile, and “Hello, I’m pleased to meet you,” are common forms of greeting. Americans usually do not embrace in public, except with members of their family or very close friends. This may seem uncomfortable or strange to some visitors from other countries.
The following information will provide insight and a better understanding of how Americans think and behave.
TIME AND PUNCTUALITY
Vocabulary is filled with references to time: Appointments are taken very seriously, and it is expected they will be kept. If they must be delayed or broken, it is important to notify the person that you will be late or that you will have to change the appointment.
EQUALITY
Rank, status and authority are not as important as in most of the rest of the world. Although examples to the contrary are seen, Americans believe one’s physical condition or economic status should not be a barrier. Americans are often proud of their “humble” beginnings and admire people who have succeeded despite the odds.
NATIONALITY AND RACE
While America is known as a land of freedom, tolerance and acceptance, it does have some people with bigoted attitudes about other people’s skin color, nationality, accents and so on. This is unfortunate, but you may encounter such persons. Please be aware that St. Petersburg College does not tolerate discriminatory speech or conduct, and if you experience any problems in this regard while on campus, contact your campus provost’s office or your international student officer/advisor, where you will receive assistance. We have learned over the years that one of the best ways to counter discrimination is simply to maintain one’s dignity. In some cases, this will cause offending parties to change their thinking.
INDIVIDUALISM AND PRIVACY
Americans recognize that all persons are unique. Many Americans think a certain amount of private time is necessary to recharge emotionally and psychologically.
- Self-Help Concept
From childhood, Americans learn that there is appreciation for a person who, through hard work and sacrifice, achieves success. - Competition and Free Enterprise
Generally, Americans think more progress will be made in a society that promotes competition in all areas, whether it be business, medicine or the arts. - Future Orientation
Most Americans believe they have a responsibility to set goals and plan for the future. - Action/Work Orientation
Americans appreciate people who work hard, no matter their station in life. - Directness, Openness and Honesty
Although Americans do not enjoy conveying bad news, many still prefer being direct in most everything – including things that may seem unpleasant. Sometimes this is interpreted as impolite, but it is not meant this way. - Materialism/Acquisitiveness
Many Americans tend to think their material possessions are the rewards of hard work. It may seem that they are spending much of their time in the pursuit of these material objects. - Religion
The United States does not have a state religion. The United States Constitution respects all religions and guarantees freedom of worship and belief. The Verizon Yellow Pages of the telephone directory and weekend issues of the newspaper provide information about different religious organizations in the area. - Personal Space
Americans prefer personal space. Here is a brief guide to acceptable personal interaction and personal space:
Talking to a close friend - distance of 18-24 inches
(45-60 centimeters)
Talking to a casual acquaintance - distance of 36 inches
(90 centimeters)
Eye contact in all instances - steady, not staring.
Physical contact with a casual acquaintance - handshake.
Physical contact with a close friend - Quick hug or a pat on the back.
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